Listen to this (track) throughout this post, I feel it helps emphasise the words.
Betrayal, the lowest of the low. The hardest thing to get over and the cruelest, most heartless thing to do. It comes in many shapes or forms, anything from being cheated on by a partner to countless spiteful attacks by a close friend. Anything in this area has adverse effects on a person and in some cases leads to icing of the soul.
Betrayal is ultimate disappointment, ultimate misery and untimate despair. It is very hard to comprehend and I understand that the main question floating in everyone's minds is Why? I guess for the most part you will never ever know why someone could be so cruel to make you feel so small. I think however, that not knowing in some cases is better than knowing. As usually it will be another dissapointment.
Having experienced betrayal myself - quite recently infact - I know that it is horrific and traumatic and is something that does not dissappear overnight, nor after several months. Hatred builds and forgiveness seems out of the question. For me it is, in this case anyway but that does not mean that you should discount it.
Forgiveness, whether it is forgiveness of the self, or forgiving another can sometimes be the starting point to build yourself back up after the hurt is over. Now, I know that forgiving someone is hard, but it will help in the long run. It will help settle the thoughts and that horrible feeling in your gut. Just think 'Hey, if they meant that much to me, and I meant that much to them they would be here, and they would never let me go'.
Someone who does not appreciate you for who you are is not worth it. Let them get on with their life, knowing that you are a better person than them. This should be enough for you to rise above them. If not write down all the things they did to you that hurt, all the things that you hated about them and how much better your life is now without them - This should settle it, at least for a while.
Otherwise listen to songs of sadness...they make you stronger. Here are some I like - (Link1)(Link 2)
Remember: ''Coulda been a princess, could be a king. Coulda had a castle or worn a ring. But no''
Hope I helped and as ever, thank you so much for reading, its what makes me write more.
xx
Betrayal, the lowest of the low. The hardest thing to get over and the cruelest, most heartless thing to do. It comes in many shapes or forms, anything from being cheated on by a partner to countless spiteful attacks by a close friend. Anything in this area has adverse effects on a person and in some cases leads to icing of the soul.
Betrayal is ultimate disappointment, ultimate misery and untimate despair. It is very hard to comprehend and I understand that the main question floating in everyone's minds is Why? I guess for the most part you will never ever know why someone could be so cruel to make you feel so small. I think however, that not knowing in some cases is better than knowing. As usually it will be another dissapointment.
Having experienced betrayal myself - quite recently infact - I know that it is horrific and traumatic and is something that does not dissappear overnight, nor after several months. Hatred builds and forgiveness seems out of the question. For me it is, in this case anyway but that does not mean that you should discount it.
Forgiveness, whether it is forgiveness of the self, or forgiving another can sometimes be the starting point to build yourself back up after the hurt is over. Now, I know that forgiving someone is hard, but it will help in the long run. It will help settle the thoughts and that horrible feeling in your gut. Just think 'Hey, if they meant that much to me, and I meant that much to them they would be here, and they would never let me go'.
Someone who does not appreciate you for who you are is not worth it. Let them get on with their life, knowing that you are a better person than them. This should be enough for you to rise above them. If not write down all the things they did to you that hurt, all the things that you hated about them and how much better your life is now without them - This should settle it, at least for a while.
Otherwise listen to songs of sadness...they make you stronger. Here are some I like - (Link1)(Link 2)
Remember: ''Coulda been a princess, could be a king. Coulda had a castle or worn a ring. But no''
Hope I helped and as ever, thank you so much for reading, its what makes me write more.
xx
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